Some extent of work, it appears that most of women’s pages we saw once I used OKCupid were either quick lists that explained absolutely absolutely absolutely nothing: “i prefer music and films and books” or otherwise they certainly were generic one line statements that meant nothing “I adore to visit. My young ones are my entire life”

Good, available, benign, encouraging statements.

Usually as I’m swiping through the ultra homogenous group of pictures showing females on horses, or mountain climbing, or doing yoga, or at a club with a activities jersey on … there’s a strange persistence towards the terms inside their profile. It all boils down to:

“Here’s an inventory of dealbreakers to cull the large amount of you … dirty rabble … the majority of you aren’t worth my time. Don’t content me personally. We don’t would like you. ”

It is really disheartening.

Accurate photos with human anatomy shots. We have dated females having a small extra, but lying about any of it actually sours the date that is first.

Now if there aren’t human body shots I simply assume the worst.

Photos that aren’t month’s, years, and 30lbs old. We came across a woman on lots of Fish many years ago, into the images she had been young, gorgeous, together with a smile that is great. Once I ended up being set to satisfy her I literally stepped by her because i did son’t recognize her. It had been the exact same woman for certain, but she is at least 50lbs heavier and lots of years older.

“If you consist of (word/thing) in your message I’ll understand you read my profile rather than just taking a look at my photos, and can reply. ”

Something along those relative lines, but worded better.

Helps her weed out of the fuckbois, while also tossing dudes that are legitimately interested a fucking bone tissue. Continue Reading →